Couples Therapy

“In relationships, trust isn’t a promise to never hurt each other. It’s the risk that we will hurt each other and the confidence that, if we do, we will come together to heal.” -Esther Perel

Do you feel misunderstood or unappreciated by your partner?

Do you feel like you and your partner can’t agree on things like money, chores, or how to parent?

Do you feel like you and your partner keep having the same arguments over and over?

Do you feel a lack of connection or intimacy with your partner?

Do you find yourself feeling lonely, even when you and your partner are together?

Has there been infidelity or broken trust in your relationship?

Do you find yourself wondering if you should stay in your marriage?

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Difficulties within a romantic partnership can feel overwhelming at best and devastating at worst. One of our core needs as humans is to connect meaningfully with others, and when this foundation is shaky, it can feel like our whole world is turned upside down. Couples therapy can help.

At Lilac Therapy Center, we value and are committed to helping couples rebuild trust, connection, and intimacy while reducing negative cycles of communication and conflict. We know that successful relationships require work, nurturing, and intention, but the rush and stress of daily life can often make this difficult. Whether you have been stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns for many years, have experienced a recent change to your relationship (such as moving in together or bringing home a new baby), or are entering into a new partnership and looking to avoid repeating past mistakes, couples therapy can provide the space to help you achieve your relationship goals. We carefully tailor our therapeutic approach to meet the needs of each couple, and we utilize interventions from a variety of treatment models to help our couples reach their goals. We work with dating, pre-marital, married, or co-habitating couples, and our practice is LGBTQ-affirming.  

Our couples therapy services are designed to provide a safe and supportive environment where partners can come together, openly communicate, and strengthen their emotional connection. Our team of experienced therapists is dedicated to guiding couples through their journey, fostering understanding, and empowering individuals to be their authentic selves within the relationship. 

How can couples therapy help?

Improved Communication: Enhance your ability to express your thoughts and feelings while truly listening to your partner, fostering mutual understanding. 

Conflict Resolution: Learn how to manage conflicts in a healthy manner, addressing underlying issues and preventing recurring disagreements. 

Rebuilding Trust: For couples grappling with trust issues, therapy provides a platform to rebuild trust, heal wounds, and foster a renewed sense of security. 

Intimacy and Connection: Rediscover the emotional and physical intimacy that initially brought you together, fostering a deeper connection. 

Individual Growth: Couples Therapy also focuses on personal growth, encouraging self-awareness and self-improvement, which ultimately contributes to the strength of the partnership. 

Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, demonstrating your commitment to a healthier and more fulfilling partnership. If you're ready to embark on this transformative journey, our therapists are here to guide you every step of the way. Contact us today to schedule a session and take the first step toward a brighter future together.